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美文赏析:个性的价值被高估了

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美文赏析:个性的价值被高估了优秀的人之所以优秀是有原因的,可能他们是自律超人,也可能常常努力到深夜,但是结果都是相似的,总是从人群中脱颖而出。常言道,性格决定命运,而一个人的生活习惯又会对性格产生影响,所以想要成为一个优秀的女性,每天要坚持4个好习惯,除了多学习,你还了解哪一个?

1.不会化妆没关系,但要坚持涂防晒

许多女生嫌弃化妆麻烦,喜欢素颜出门,没关系,但要记得坚持涂防晒霜。太阳光中含有紫外线,照射在皮肤上,会使脂肪氧化,生成自由基,加速皮肤衰老。所以女生想要延缓衰老,永葆青春,就得坚持涂防晒霜。

2.没有上进心可以,但不能不学习

年轻女生常常被前辈们贴上了“不求上进”的标签,心态“佛系”,有也行,没有也行,似乎看淡了红尘。其实这也没什么不好,好好享受生活也是人生的一大乐趣。

但是无论何时何地,对于自己的人生还是要上心,不能停止学习。现在生活变化快,如果没有一颗“活到老,学到老”的决心,那么很容易被社会淘汰。

3.生活可以平淡,但要细心记录

或许我们的生活不够精彩,只是舞台剧中的小配角,但是也别忘记,用笔头记下平淡生活中的精彩瞬间。特别是灵光乍现的奇妙想法,要抓住它,展开它,也许就是一个很棒的创意,所以不管是什么,记录并深耕它,说不定就成了一次商机,或者是一个滋养你的爱好,最不济,也是多年后再翻起来时,与那年自己的一次对话。

4.不要强行合群

不要委屈自己,强行融入群体,在这个世界上,没有什么比天天听着三观不合的人,在自己面前叨叨,还要烦躁的事情了。

想要变得优秀是很多女生的梦想,但是优秀的女人不会告诉你,每天只需要做好这4点,你也可以成为其中一员,走向人生巅峰。

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Have you ever thought about what your own personality is like?
你有没有想过,你自己的个性到底是怎样的?

If you are asked to describe yourself with three words, which three words would you choose?
如果让你用3个词来概括你自己,你会选择哪3个单词?

Or, do you actually have no idea what your own personality is like?
还是说,其实你自己并不清楚自己的个性是怎样的?

Are you actually a person with no personality?
或者你其实是个没有什么个性的人?

But then again, is personality really so important?
但是,话说回来,个性这个东西真的那么重要吗?

Kenya Hara, a leading design personality in Japan, once said:
日本的设计大师原研哉有一句名言:

The value of personality, as well as the explicit expression of likes and dislikes, have been unnecessarily overestimated.
个性的价值,以及明确表达喜欢、不喜欢的态度,都被不必要地高估了。

It is a good thing that we live in a society where all people are free to express their desires.
我们身处一个所有人都能自由表达其欲望的社会,这是一件好事。

But freedom can also bring confusion.
但自由也会带来迷失。

What some people are really seeking is not to enjoy the freedom itself, but to force others to see their freedom.
有些人真正在寻求的已经不是享受自由本身,而是强行让别人看见自己的自由。

For example, “I want to eat Mac Donald’s” and “Mac Donald’s will do” both mean to eat Mac Donald’s.
例如,“我想吃麦当劳”和“麦当劳就行”表达的本来都是去吃麦当劳。

But it seems that the former embodies a person’s independence, while the latter reflects the lack of assertiveness.
但似乎前者体现了一个人的独立,而后者体现的是没主见。

However, is this really necessary?
然而,这样做真的有必要吗?

Is one’s daily performance of independence with a variety of acts not an embodiment of being not independent?
每天用各种行为强行表现自己的独立,难道不恰好就是不独立的表现?

An independent person will indeed have a personality, but a person with personality may not necessarily be independent.
一个独立的人的确会是有个性的,但一个有个性的人可并不一定有多独立。

They might just be a slave of vanity, craving the attention of others every day.
他们或许只是虚荣心的奴隶罢了,每天渴求着别人的注意力。

What do you really need, freedom and independence, or a tag that hangs on you?
你真正需要的东西,是自由和独立本身,还是一个挂在身上的标签?

It seems that most people have not figured out this issue.
很多人似乎并没有把这个问题想清楚。

Have you ever thought about what your own personality is like?
你有沒有想過,你自己的個性到底是怎樣的?

If you are asked to describe yourself with three words, which three words would you choose?
如果讓你用3個詞來概括你自己,你會選擇哪3個單詞?

Or, do you actually have no idea what your own personality is like?
還是說,其實你自己并不清楚自己的個性是怎樣的?

Are you actually a person with no personality?
或者你其實是個沒有什麽個性的人?

But then again, is personality really so important?
但是,話說回來,個性這個東西真的那麽重要嗎?

Kenya Hara, a leading design personality in Japan, once said:
日本的設計大師原研哉有一句名言:

The value of personality, as well as the explicit expression of likes and dislikes, have been unnecessarily overestimated.
個性的價值,以及明确表達喜歡、不喜歡的态度,都被不必要地高估了。

It is a good thing that we live in a society where all people are free to express their desires.
我們身處一個所有人都能自由表達其欲望的社會,這是一件好事。

But freedom can also bring confusion.
但自由也會帶來迷失。

What some people are really seeking is not to enjoy the freedom itself, but to force others to see their freedom.
有些人真正在尋求的已經不是享受自由本身,而是強行讓别人看見自己的自由。

For example, “I want to eat Mac Donald’s” and “Mac Donald’s will do” both mean to eat Mac Donald’s.
例如,“我想吃麥當勞”和“麥當勞就行”表達的本來都是去吃麥當勞。

But it seems that the former embodies a person’s independence, while the latter reflects the lack of assertiveness.
但似乎前者體現了一個人的獨立,而後者體現的是沒主見。

However, is this really necessary?
然而,這樣做真的有必要嗎?

Is one’s daily performance of independence with a variety of acts not an embodiment of being not independent?
每天用各種行爲強行表現自己的獨立,難道不恰好就是不獨立的表現?

An independent person will indeed have a personality, but a person with personality may not necessarily be independent.
一個獨立的人的确會是有個性的,但一個有個性的人可并不一定有多獨立。

They might just be a slave of vanity, craving the attention of others every day.
他們或許隻是虛榮心的奴隸罷了,每天渴求着别人的注意力。

What do you really need, freedom and independence, or a tag that hangs on you?
你真正需要的東西,是自由和獨立本身,還是一個挂在身上的标簽?

It seems that most people have not figured out this issue.
很多人似乎并沒有把這個問題想清楚。

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